Playing it safe=Bein scared
Honestly think about it. Most of the time when we do play it safe its because we are scared. Scared of what could happen if we didn’t. In everything we do there is a group of people who play it safe.
They do not take risks because they would be out of they’re comfort zone. Being out of your comfort zone is ok. That is what allows you to see life from a more broadened view.
Have you been playing it safe your whole life? How has it made you feel? Do you enjoy it?
I’m pretty sure you’ve seen the risk takers who get further in life than those who play it safe. Opportunity is out there for you to come and take it. Because if you do not someone else will.
The bumps and bruises you sustain from risking it can be healed. They will make you stronger for the next time. So start living your life how you’ve always wanted.
It’s what you want right? Then there is no reason for you not to have it.
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5 tips to wake up happy and excited
We all want to wake up happy and excited more than we do tired and unhappy.
- Make sure you go to sleep in a positive and happy mood
- Awake and smile
- start saying what you are thankful for
- Believe and know that today is going to be a good day
- Keep a positive attitude
Visualization technique for a mindrush
Mike Dooley is an amazing guy. I truly enjoyed him in the Secret. I did it just for the heck of it before i posted it and i got a head rush. A big one it was as if i was already in the car.
Deepak Chopra Interview On Ellen Show 10/27/2009
Wow I will definitely be following Deepak Chopra more closely. I agree with what he is saying about being ill and etc. Changing our attitude will change alot of things within ourself.
Authenticity= The Secret sauce
Are you Staying true by being your or someone else? For example in front of your friends, Coworkers are you putting on an act or being yourself?
Authenticity is not a thing for everyone. I’m pretty sure a large amount could not deal with being their true self. Letting others control what we are doing, wearing and etc. To me That’s not being who god has made you to be.
For Example one morning when i was getting dressed i had picked up some new shoes to wear cause at one point i was addicted to shoes. When i put them on i felt like this is not me anymore. Skateboarding and blogging is me. I love it, everything about it.
So i put the shoes back up and put on my skateboarding shoes. Doing something so simple changed my whole view about and brought a clearer understanding to who i truly am.
Are you being who you truly are? If so what are some ways you are able to be?
photo credit: {Guerrilla Futures | Jason Tester}
Getting rid of fear the simple way
photo credit: Lindsay_Silveira
Life overall can be scary. Being afraid is not a way that one should live they’re life. I’m pretty sure you can agree with that. Fear is only a mindset that you and i have created. It can be erased as it was created.
Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and Confidence in the doing-Unknown
Everything I’ve ever done was out of fear of being mediocre-Chet Atkins
Most people will not truly understand how they truly are controlled by they’re fear. I for one was controlled by it. Skateboarding has helped me and still does elminate my fear. Doing things that you never have and believing you could do them.
The first time you try, makes the rest of the times are not as hard. Therefore it tends to become easier and easier. Then that leads to it not being so scary and fearful. Plus life is too short to wuss out on simple things.
You want to live a more fulfilling, positive and better life right? then start doing what you’ve planned to do this time last year.
Everyday Do something that you are afraid to do. It could be something simple to extremely hard. Slowly fear will leave your system. It’s up to you if it will come back into it or not.
How to Plan your goals
Planning goals is something that may be a very hard thing to some. But it is a good thing to do. Because if you do not write down your goals then how will you remember them? I’m not saying that you will not remember any. But Take the time to write down them.
First start off by figuring out what your goals are. What the purpose of them. Also what you plan to achieve from these goals. Plus what you are willing to sacrifice.
Whatever goal you are striving toward accomplishing something is going to be sacrificed. It could be many things. It just depends on if you are willing to sacrifice it.
Next after you’ve cleared some way to determine which goals are the most important is to start breaking them down.
- I can do it this way and get this result
- Stop spending carelessely and save more
- etc etc
In order to achieve goals you have to be willing to make the changes withing yourself necessary to achieve them. The change may be a hard thing for yourself. But there is no need to not try. I mean you want to achieve this goal right?
Take Action and while doing so believe. Believe that you are going to achieve it. Listen to your gut and your heart. Those two will get your further than anything else will.
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Beyond the secret
Taking baby steps and more action is what i need to get back into doing with my skateboarding. It seems ever since i bruised my heel i’ve been holding back to much.
Beyond the secret is an amazing dvd to watch. I love it just as much as the first one. If you still have not picked it up make sure to do so.
John Demartini on Gratitude
Being thankful for what we have is a big thing. Recently while driving to work the speedometer in my car stopped working. I was a little upsset at first but then i thought about how grateful i am to be able to afford to drive a car back and forth to work each day.
Enjoy the video .
How to deal with Jealous people
Dealing with Jealous people can be a bit irritating at times. But try your best to not let it irritate you. At first i’d suggest ignoring them. Jealous people come in all shapes and sizes.
The reason i believe they are jealous is because they want to be like you or they want what you have. Plain and simple. You have some people that will hide they’re jealous and put you down. So down until you have a mental breakdown and stop trying whatever it is that you were.
That is they’re overall game plan. I’m not simply saying this is how certain people are because it could be the person closest to you that is jealous secretly.
Tips on how to deal with jealous people
- Never let them see you sweat the small stuff
- Never let them get to you
- Always keep your head up
- Stay positive at all times
- Ask them why they are jealous if necessary
