How to control your emotions better

 Control our emotions seems like a very hard task to do. I mean i’m still working on controlling my emotions better everyday.  This is not a one time thing to do and your able to do it every single chance you get.

Our emotions can get us further or they can get us no where.  Remember to think and to not let your emotions control your destination in life.

But any how heres how to control your emotions better

1. Instead of getting mad and yelling walk away and take deep breaths
2. Stay positive while doing so
3. Believe that it happened for a reason and solve it
4. Take control by controlling how you react

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How to achieve acceptance

 It begans when we are young that we want to be accepted. Being able to hang with the in crowd and fit in. As a young person it takes some time to find out who we really are.

Some people may not be able to fully achieve acceptance. But its a process that is not hard to do. It begans with being true to yourself and your surroundings. Those who act not in they’re true character people will eventually take notice with that.

I am very observant with many things. For example i watch how certain people act when we all are hanging out. Then when someone else comes around i watch and see how they change.  To some that may be a difficult thing to deal with mentally but its not so much.

Keys to achieving acceptance

• Be yourself
• Be positive
• Be nothing but who you really are
• Stay true to yourself
• Hang with those who you wish to become like
• Never forget where you come from

I’m pretty sure the list could go on and on. But those are some of the main things i believe that will help you achieve acceptance. 
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How to stop caring what other people think about you

There comes a time when you should stop caring what other people think about you. I’m not saying that you should completely change. More so become more truer to what you believe in.

We live our lives to a point where we will be accepted or in other words fit into a person that someone else makes us out to be.  Things of that nature tend to start when we are young. Not knowing that much about who we want to be.

For example when i was younger i thought that i wanted to do what my father did. To the exact detail. But as i grew older and found something that i loved more than anything i did what i wanted to.

So ask yourself are you living your life the way that you want to? Or are you living your life the way that someone else wants you to live your life? 

Whether it’s a yes or a no make  sure you are 100% happy

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How to adapt to a bad situation and get the most from it

photo credit: Allie_Caulfield Adapting to a bad situation may be one of the hardest things that a person may ever have to do. Because whenever we are faced a challenge or a situation to grow from it we can either stand tall or crumble.

Maybe you lost your job or something seems to always happen at home. If you lost you job what is it that you know you can do but have not done yet? 

Bad situations are meant for you to become more than you already are and to be creative. Whenever i’m at home and i am not able to make it to the laundromat i wash my clothes in the bathtub with detergent.  The washer machine and dryer being broke does not stop me from washing clothes.

But any how here are some tips to adapt to a bad situation and get the most from it

1. Take in mentally, visually the current situation surrounds and everything
2. Know that it is not permanent unless you allow it to be
3. Say to yourself i am and will get through this
4. Keep going through the pain and the hurt
5. Stay positive while doing so
6. Start expanding your mind with what would happen if i did this, that and etc
7. Never stop growing

How to start enjoying paying your bills

At some point or another you should get past the phase of hating to pay your bills.  Myself i used to hate doing this. There would be times were i’d postpone paying a bill or two just being lazy and what not.

Then it began to take control over me and my life. I kept postponing things for no apparent reason. Just being lazy all together was not very helpful at all. But any how Paying my bills became more enjoyable to me.

The way that i was able to shift my mentality was buy believing that i am able to.  Being able to take care of business. Paying bills and what not. Also that these companies provided a service that i enjoy.

Then another thing that i thought to myself you know that you are capable of paying them ontime so why are you slacking?

Here are some tips on how to enjoy paying your bills

• Start being more positive about your bills
•  Doing so is keeping money in circulation
• It is not the end of the world
• You are capable of Paying
• Do it with great delight

Review of the Richest man in Babylon

 I must say that this book was amazing. I truly do mean amazing. It is a very quick and easy book to read. The way that it is written it automatically captures your attention.

The Beginning starts out talking about a guy who is just a regular person who becomes rich. While everyone around him is wondering how it became possible.

Then he is asked if he would teach others in babylon how he was able to become so rich. The principles for obtaining wealth. Also talks about investments and whatnot.

Here are some quotes from the Book that i wrote down

A percent of what i earn is mine to keep, Men of action are favored by the goddess of goodluck.

But any how overall this book was worth my time reading and it will be for you as well.  Pick up the book and apply the principles.

Are You Wasting a Day?

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Honestly are you?

Why Personal development – Jim Rohn

Are you being Lazy in learning?

 Honestly are you? if so there is no need to feel bad. You just have to make the decision that you want to learn.

Just think for a second when you were in lets say high school. You had some friends that’d sleep in class on a regular basis. It was either one or two things that caused that.

They either hated school and did not care or they just were not interested. We all know that if there is something we are not interested in we are not really going to pay much attention to it and etc.

So take the time to find something that you are interested in. Doing that part find something that you do not know about it and continue to learn as much as possible.

Keep a Journal

 I truly do recommend it. The one in this picture is mine at the current moment. Just something small and pocket size. So i can carry it with me at any moment.

I’ll admit i hardly used to write anything in it. Now i am doing more of  the writing instead of just carrying it for no reason. You cannot trust your memory 24/7.

Also it is a way for you to capture your thoughts on paper. Your Journal/s are very valuable to you. Because they simply reflect you.  I know you just like me have ideas and thoughts, but we have nothing to write it on.

Whenever you write something down in your journal you can go back and look over it. For example writing down goals. Then after you’ve achieved them you can go back a couple years later or however long you choose to read them.

Go pick up a small notebook, Journal to capture your ideas. Be a student on life.

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