Busy being busy doesn’t guarantee success
I had first come across the busy being busy phrase from Jim Rohn. He had talked about those who are so busy being busy that’s all they know how to do. They have no sort of clue where they are going. They just are being busy.
Whenever you take upon a task you shall go about it the correct way. Going about it the correct way with a game plan, and a vision of where you want to go is the who key.
Without a vision and a plan of where you want to go is useless. It’s like taking a boat out into the ocean and never having looked at a globe, where you want to go, what to expect and etc. I’m sure there is many other things pertaining to safety.
The Whole point is to have a vision and a game plan. Write down your vision of what you want to accomplish (goals) and how you are going to accomplish them (game plan).
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Too much of good things are bad
Whenever we come across something that is good for us we instill in our minds that it is ok to do it all of the time. Whatever the case may be it’s not the best choice. I had heard this from Jim Rohn in the power of ambition.
I had thought about the time when i found something that would benefit my health and etc. Drinking Naked Juice smoothies would help clean out my system and what not. But at one point i was drinking one every day. It’s like i got hooked into drinking them.
When i should have been drinking them in moderation. Having one every once in awhile. Then i would drink some for lunch and before then i’d have one for breakfast. Doing just that was complete overkill. Jim Rohn had said an apple a day will keep the doctor away, But eating only apples is not good.
I’m not sure if it was the exact words but it was something along those lines.
Just make sure whatever it is that you are doing its not the only thing you are doing.
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How to be Grateful for people you don’t like
Being Grateful for people that we do not like can be a very hard thing to do. I for one have experienced times where i found it hard to do. Being so used to dealing with people by being angry towards them and not forgiving.
But that’s not the type of life that we should live. It may be the life that some people live, that doesn’t mean that you have to. To be successful and living a fulfilling life is totally impossible to do so with anger, jealousy and hate.
Those components are a blockage that has built up. The more anger, jealousy and hate that we let out it just continues to block us even more and more. I believe that it’s just as easy to be grateful for people as it is to hate them.
The way to start being grateful for the people you don’t like is to take a interest in them. Nowadays many of us are to interested in ourselves. Once you take a interest in others it can change alot.
Tips to be grateful for people you don’t like
- Take a interest in them
- Joke and laugh with them
- Speak to them even if it’s just to say hi
- Find a reason to enjoy them being around you
Jim Rohn – The Law of Sowing and Reaping
Pretty amazing lesson i must say. This is another thing i’ve been focused on alot lately. Making sure that i sow good seeds so i will reap a great harvest.
Enjoy
How to get prepared for a breakthrough
My father had instilled in me to be prepared for anything. As time went along i carried that with me. Whenever i was younger i had no intentions on getting this job and i got it.
But anyhow getting prepared for a breakthrough is something that many of us have to get accustomed to doing. First you should start by reading daily books of inspiration in your field you wish to conquer. By doing so you can gain the knowledge.
Knowledge that you may have not known before. So its always good to continue to learn. Then after you continue learning start mentally visualizing how its going to be when the breakthrough occurs.
Truly how everything is going to be from the beginning to the end. It may shock you how it will all turn out.
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How to relax even when it seems impossible
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I know that to many of us relaxing may be a hard thing to accomplish. We are so used to being a go go go mentality. From the time we wake up till we lay down to sleep at night. The way you start our your morning can determine basically how your day is going to be.
If you wake up turn on the computer, make coffee, then check emails, your phone to see if you have any missed calls and etc. You are starting your day off wrong. Believe me i used to do this.
But any how lets get back to the main purpose to relaxing. The easiest way i find i’m able to relax is by doing something that does not require alot of mental stress. In other words alot of work. It could something simple as watching a movie or sitting watching youtube videos.
So after a long day at work instead of taking work home with you sit and enjoy time with your family. Playing with your kids watching a movie. Maybe even helping them with their homework. Also get out from infront of the television after work you could be relaxing in a better way. Go for a relaxing walk with your wife, Girlfriend, and or kids. The small things will make a huge difference.
Why worrying is worthless
It simply is worthless because for one it has no major value in it for yourself. Not unless you enjoy being stressed, sick and feeling bad.
“It is not work that kills, but worry.”
African Proverb
“I’ve seen many troubles in my time,
only half of which ever came true.”
Mark Twain
What are you worrying about right now? Is it health? Money? Friends? Family? If so do yourself a favor and stop. The results of what happens in our lives is not up to us. The main thing is how we react to them.
If you put your faith in God then magical things can happen. Knowing that and doing so has made a drastic change in my life ever since I’ve done so. Whenever I’m unsure about something I’ll choose the best choice and put the rest in god’s hand.
Worrying is natural for us to do. But it’s not something that we should be accustomed to doing. Take a different approach and start leaving worry at the place were it should be instead of carrying it around daily.
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Why Positive thinking does work
Positive thinking works whether you believe it to or not. It’s not some new thing to do just to lie to yourself. It is a simple practice that one can do to become more than they already are.
Positive thinking allows the hard to not seem so hard any more. Positive thinking is more than just thinking. It’s taking action while thinking positive. Therefore making the action that is being taken more powerful.
If you are trying to succeed in business without thinking positive there is just no way that you are going to be able to succeed. Plain and simple.
Try this out, for a day everything that you do from the moment you wake up be a negative person. At work, home, wherever you go and do. See how it makes you feel.
Then try it with positive thinking. Wake up and feel good. Smiling thankful that you are awake and able to enjoy life. Then with everything that you do and come across think positive.
Do those two tests and see how much of a difference you will have with your belief about positive thinking. As for those who still do not believe in it. Sooner or later they will.
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6 Simple tips to eat better
- Get more rest
- Exercise
- Have self control over the food you eat
- Eat healthier
- Take your time eating
- Want to eat better
